Hi friends!
I know I have been MIA on here for YEARS but I have never forgotten about this beautiful place where I can speak my mind freely! It's what got me here has always been my motto in life and i'm very happy it has always fit my life so well.
Today I am going to be talking about my Y journey!
I've never been happier, ever.
Here is this brand spankin' new chapter in my life.. feel free to follow my new journey with me. I am so excited to share my behind the scenes
May 16th is when it all began! I bought this Presenter's Kit, I am sure you have heard me rave about it lately and in the past! I bought it for the deal or you can call me a Kit Napper! I got $360 worth of makeup and skin care products for only $99!
I purchased this kit on that day because my amazing husband put me on an allowance!
When I got my kit in the mail I had no idea this beautiful thing would change my life in so many positive and negative ways.
Positives: SELF WORTH. CONFIDENCE. TRUE HAPPINESS.
Negatives: RELATIONSHIP TENSION. GUILT. COMPLETE CHAOS.
The pro's ALWAYS outweighed the con's! It took my family and I two months to finally come to that conclusion.
If you have known me at all throughout my life you know that I have always been terrified of confrontation. I avoided it like the plague. I hated small talk, phone conversations, face time, social media, and honestly people terrified me in general.
Until recently when I took a good look at myself and asked if I was TRULY happy in my skin!
The answer was always no.
I thought I knew what happiness was, but honestly I didn't.
My life has COMPLETELY sucked if you look at it in a negative way. (I never have or will again complain about it)
I was diagnosed with cancer at age 19.
My daughter has a RARE genetic disorder that prevents her from crawling and walking
I was diagnosed with Hashimoto's late February 2017.
Danny & I have always had some kind of trial from keeping us from being happy.
Both our families have experienced more than our fair share of cancer or health problems.
And I could go on for days about how my life has not been fair to me whatsoever.
BUT that isn't me! I don't think or work that way! I hate people feeling bad for me. I hate being negative because in reality.. I'm SO LUCKY!
I hate complaining and complainers! Lately I have had to distanced myself from people I never intended to leave. But mentally, emotionally, and physically it's better for me in the long run. I'm trying to detoxify my life from the downers, complainers, and bad vibers.
NO MORE MRS. NICE KRISTIN!
This is the best thing I am about to share!
I'M HONEST NOW! To myself, my family, and my friends!
I don't have time or energy to waste anymore. I am done being a walking punching bag. I've started standing up for myself.
My next subject is SAHM's! They have too much pressure!
I started staying home when Brooke was 5 months old. I quickly became pregnant with Charlie and I thought I had it all figured out.. I wanted to stay home full time with the girls.
I had been a SAHM for not even 2 full years and I knew something was going on. I was depressed, anxious, lazy, negative, not the best I could be and I knew that.
I remember people always telling me that "You're so lucky you get to stay home." OR my favorite "You don't have a job so what do you do all day?"
Now if you have never had 2 kids under 2 and with special needs.. I DON'T WANT TO HEAR A WORD OUT OF YOUR MOUTH so don't waste your breath on how I should feel about staying home.
Now I am not saying that you can't be successful at it but it just wasn't for me.
We started living paycheck to paycheck. I knew we needed me back working if we wanted to keep our cars and house. This not only terrified me but it took a lot more out of my husband. Things got hard. The D word was thrown around the first two months I started at Younique.
We weren't used to me working. Our household, yard, family, and relationship was falling apart right before my eyes.
Things are FINALLY starting to look up for us.
Danny has been able to cut back his hours to help me and spend time with us as a family not only on the weekends but week nights!
I have a VERY flexible job. I basically work when I want. I have been so lucky that Younique happened when it did. Not only has it helped financially but also emotionally. I HAVE SELF WORTH. And true happiness for once in my life! And you'd think people would celebrate for me and with me but that hasn't been the case with all. I have found people are actually a lot more selfish than I ever thought possible. I had more doubters at first than supporters.
All I am trying to say is NEVER GIVE UP! If you feel defeated in something that is never a bad thing. Maybe what you have tried in the past hasn't worked but try it again tomorrow. Find your hidden passion and run with it! Don't look back or wait for anyone. When you are at the top, your true fans will be there with you or right behind you. They will never understand your happiness and what it means to you. LIVE & LET LIVE has been in my mind a lot lately. If you are following your dreams you are doing part of your job. The other part is kindness.. Now if you don't have any of that.. that is why you are where you are. You are the debby downer of life so either change your mind and thoughts OR keep them to yourself and keep walking! FAR AWAY from me!
Stop making up excuses and instead of saying, "Why me!?" start saying, "Why NOT me?!"
I believe that everything happens for a reason.. You might not know the purpose yet but you will find out soon.
Thank you all for your support and kind words.
Love Always, Younique Kristin
