Being a girl isn't as amazing as it's cracked up to be, especially when you're young. Now it has it's plus's but it hasn't always been this way, this easy. I will tell you why in just one word, that word is love. It sounds simple right? Not always. Especially when it's the one most important thing you want in your life. It's a craving. Now I am not talking about just any kind of love.. not love from family, friends, or co-workers. I'm talking about raw, mad, passionate, romantic, extraordinary, butterflies in the stomach, fairytale kind of love with your "special someone." I believe we are all on this earth to find that "special someone" It sounds simple, but why is it so complicated? Maybe because there are six billion people in this world. How rare is it to find love with odds like that? I would say it's very rare, very complicated. How are you supposed to find just one person to be with forever. One person to love all the qualities you have to offer. One person with good and bad qualities you also have to accept and love. It sounds almost impossible. Once you find that meaningful love sometimes it's hard to hold on to, for plenty of reasons. Pressure, selfishness, lust, unfaithfulness, lies, drama, immaturity, indecisiveness,  insecurities. The worst thing is falling in love alone. It happens all the time, to many of us. Always wanting that person to love you back, almost needing them to. At times it's quite exhausting. To love another with all your heart and soul. To desire them. Fantasize your life with them forever and to not be loved in return. It's heartbreaking. Heartbreak is another thing that comes with love. You risk that chance every time you fall. Is the fall worth making though? I believe it is. It hurts but it's better to feel heartbreak than constant loneliness. It's worth feeling something. I say fall. You never know how fleeting that love might be unless you fall. I've learned you can't find or force love. Don't find love, let love find you. That's why it's called falling in love, because you don't force yourself to fall, you just fall..

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